Most people fall into the trap of the same boring, intimate scripts. Intimacy is more than having a kiss and having sex with your partner. Today, people are moving away from these monotonous scripts to unlock a new level of pleasure. One way to have a unique connection encounter is through a tantric massage.
What’s Tantric Massage?
Tantra, or tantric massage, is a style of bodywork or massage that involves stimulating and massaging your sensitive parts of the body like vulva and penis. Although it can be termed as an erotic massage, tantric massage has meditation, mindfulness, and breathwork elements. It’s not necessarily a sexual art of seduction.
Unlike other types of massage, tantric has an energetic and spiritual component where the giver can promote your inner healing. It can be a profound instrument of your emotional and spiritual healing.
How to Give a Tantric Massage
When we talk of tantric massage, it involves a full body massage, including the genitals. Here is how you can do it seamlessly to support good health and vitality.
1. Create a Conducive Environment
The first step is creating an inviting environment for the massage. A beautiful space doesn’t necessarily cost you an arm and leg. Simply lay down a mattress or a soft rug on the floor with lovely pillows.
It’s nice not to practice the massage on the bed as you commonly sleep here. You need a unique space that feels sacred and special and gives you unique energy. You can burn some oils, light candles, and play soft, soul-touching music.
2. Balance the Energies
Tantric massage is a path that will help you experience the wholesome spectrum of your being. It helps us feel integrated, healthy, whole, and happy. The basic practice of tantric is honoring energies (feminine and masculine), which are the universal guiding elements of our existence.
To balance these energies, sit and connect with your partner by looking directly into each other’s eyes. Breath together and speak into anything, including desires, needs, and wants. After this, ask your partner or spouse to lie on their back with a cushion on their hips. Make a connection by touching the belly and heart. This promotes energy flow.
3. Begin the Massage
Start working your way down from the feet and massage your partner’s feet. Move up as you massage the legs, which will also stimulate the genitals. This also helps release toxicities and promotes menstrual blood flow in women and healthy sperm in men.
Gently move into the inner thighs and combine deep muscle trigger points with long, slow strokes. This technique allows energy to flow in all sensitive parts.
4. Pay Attention to the Yoni
Before massaging Yoni, it’s mindful first to ensure your partner is relaxed. Ensure you also seek permission from your receiver to honor the sacred space. With plenty of massage oil on your hands, apply firm pressure with slow strokes on the lower part of your partner’s pelvic bone. Use the fingertips in a circular motion to boost blood flow circulation into the genital area.
Wrapping Up
Tantric massage techniques help in releasing stuck energy and tension. It can be done by a partner or a professional erotic masseur. It’s an incredibly healing, spiritual, and pleasurable experience you shouldn’t miss.